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1000 Gifts: 111-117

2011-12-08T10:09:00.000-06:00

111. Celebrating our 4 year-old's birthday yesterday

112. Said 4 year-old asking if she could stay home today to "cuddle me"

113. More snow coming this afternoon

114. The smell of play-dough

115. Maple brown sugar creamer

116. Helping out an acquaintance in need yesterday

117. Watching a tea party with fancy shoes, fancy purses, and pearls with Daddy on Skype
And, her prayer:
"How we do what you say, what you say, what you say...
God is watching over you, you, you...
Because I love you, Jesus"

1000 Gifts: 101-110

2011-12-06T08:23:00.000-06:00

101. Putting the youngest two to bed at 6:30pm last night and having them fall asleep immediately

102. Our youngest waking up by herself this morning and not crying at all

103. Taking time to clean while she is at preschool today

104. Counting on one hand how many garbage days are left before my husband gets home

105. Anticipating a busy and fun weekend ahead

106. Finding out by myself where the coolant leak in our van is

107. The kids eating their meal last night and asking me for seconds

108. Looking forward to going to the gym sans kids when he gets home

109. Christmas vacation up north

110. An awesome devotional this week about submission

1000 Gifts: 92-100

2011-12-05T09:56:00.000-06:00

92. A wonderful Thanksgiving weekend

93. A beautiful blanket of snow
94. Attending "Nutcracker Delights" and the kids wanting it to be a tradition every year
95. The smell of Christmas when I crack open totes filled with decorations
96. Our Jesse Tree tradition
97. Numerous nativity scenes around the house
98. New Christmas music: Jeremy Erickson and WOW Christmas
99. Nurturing friendships
100. The reason for the season

2011-12-01T06:32:00.002-06:00

This devotional was in my inbox this morning. After last night, this was exactly what God knew I needed to read.

Completely Full, Yet Totally Empty

Samantha Reed

“In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. And the Word became flesh and dwelt among us, and we have seen his glory, glory as of the only Son from the Father, full of grace and truth.” John 1:1, 14 (ESV)

How are you? I’m posed this question many times a day, but haven’t delved into the truth lately. ‘Cause truth is, there are only a few I want to be that honest with. And those I generally share the depths with are wading through extenuating circumstances. Filled to capacity, they’ve needed a place to pour out.

Cupped hands catch their words, worries, wants. Until my hands are heavy.

I’m weary from taking in and not pouring myself out in return. I understand; they don’t have it to give right now. Yet, hour upon hour of listening… I’m not sure I have it to give right now either.

Irony is, my very name means “Listener.” Double irony is my life verse from last year: “Whoever refreshes others will be refreshed” (Proverbs 11:25b NIV). But I can not take any more words into a soul cram-full. And I can not pour out refreshment that is not there.

I’m completely full, yet totally empty.

And so I selfishly check out in the name of self-preservation; retreat into myself, away from their words weighted with pain and trouble and questions. Distance my being from all words. Until the Word beckons me with cupped hands large enough to hold my needy soul, friend’s worn circumstances, the thin world.

I pour into the Word, a measureless crevice in which my words rest. He asks three words my parched soul thirsts for, “How are you?”

I’m weary. "I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.” Isaiah 41:10b (NIV)

I feel alone. “And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.” Matthew 28:20b (NIV)

I can’t take much more. “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” Matthew 11:28b (NIV)

I pour out, He pours in. An ebb and flow more natural than the ocean’s tides. My needy soul needs His words; needs Him: the Word.

Community is God-given. But friend’s and family’s ability to be leaned on will ebb and flow. Hence our soul’s deepest need: friendship with the Lord. {Inhale deeply that delight: we’re friends with God.} Friends with the unchanging nature of theWord, Jesus.

Will you take His cupped hand, reaching out to hold you, your cares, your friends and family members? Take His hand and take a walk through Him, the Word. Pour your truthful answers into Him and pour yourself into the fields of Scripture. Refreshment awaits. He’s asking, “How are you?”

Dear Lord, thank You for never changing. Thank You for listening and hearing. Thank You for Your faithful friendship. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

2011-11-30T22:45:00.000-06:00

I got on my knees tonight, completely broken.

I did this after leaving church, driving past our exit, driving and driving some more.

And crying.

I drove until all three kids fell asleep and after I used up all the Kleenex's in the box.

I poured out my soul on our little office floor,

leaning against the cushy chair that has followed us around during the past 11 1/2 years of military life.

He knows that I'm angry about some things.

He knows I'm sad.

He knows I'm tired.

He knows I'm stretched to the max.

He knows that I'm tired of sleeping alone.

He knows that I miss my best friend and his hugs.

He also knows that my heart yearns for something more.

To make a difference, to serve, to be a part of something bigger than myself.

1000 Gifts: 87-91

2011-11-06T07:33:00.000-06:00

87. Our church's messaging system. Without a call yesterday, we probably would have shown up an hour early this morning.

88. The kids waking up an hour early, on their own.

89. Getting ready without rushing, drinking two cups of coffee, blogging, and doing devotions before church.

90. My husband smiling and laughing on Skype last night. One of the biggest things I miss about him being gone (besides sleeping alone) is laughing and joking around with him, so this was so nice.

91. A beautiful sunrise

1000 Gifts: 79-86

2011-10-21T09:55:00.001-05:00

79. A warm house

80. Warm clothes

81. A warm vehicle

82. Hot food

83. Hot coffee

84. The luxury of taking a long, hot bubble bath two nights in a row.

85. God providing my husband his job, so we can have these things.

86. My hard-working husband who wants to give us the world.

Quiet Time

2011-10-17T14:43:00.002-05:00

Why He's My Better Half

2011-10-16T20:07:00.000-05:00

Things I've googled since my husband has left:

Wrestling moves

How to make a cool paper airplane

How to string a guitar

Nighttime prayers for boys

Lego creations

Harry Potter costume

How to play a DVD on a PS3

Fantasy Football tips

1000 Gifts: 73-78

2011-10-03T08:59:00.001-05:00

73. Beautiful fall flowers delivered by surprise this weekend. He knows me, he loves me.

74. Elizabeth George's book: A Woman Who Reflect the Heart of Jesus. This is a study I am doing on Wednesday nights with a group of ladies at church.

75. My parents are coming to visit this weekend. I also get to see two of my aunts and uncle and go for a little road trip east.

76. The changing colors of fall leaves

77. A great worship experience, sermon, and communion yesterday

78. Seeing Jesus work through the lives of our three kids

New Addition

2011-10-03T08:48:00.000-05:00

On one of our trips to MN this summer, we decided to add to our family.

Meet Mr. Hollister Green

Life Goes On

2011-10-03T08:42:00.001-05:00

There is a big piece of our family missing right now.
Things are actually going quite well.
We are keeping busy, so the time is flying by.
We've had moments of tears.
I thought my moment was hidden, but I was busted when our oldest went to the computer to Skype and there were leftover tears on the keys.
She came over, hugged me, and told me I was strong.
Our son has turned even more affectionate and now calls me "Cupcake."
Our youngest is having a more difficult time, especially when she looks out the window hoping to see snow, because that's when he's coming home.
We are covered in prayers and can feel them everyday.

1000 Gifts: 64-72

2011-09-14T19:26:00.000-05:00

64. A brand new niece with chunky cheeks and lots of beautiful dark hair!

65. A phone call letting us know there is another niece, or nephew on the way in our family!

66. Feeling super-strong after rearranging our bedroom by myself.

67. Slowly getting into a new routine

68. All three kids loving school

69. Beth Moore's "The Patriarchs" study each Tuesday morning. The best part about this gift is that the study is scheduled when our youngest is at preschool. I have enough time to drop her off, drive to church, and pick her up again. Love this.

70. Saving $29.70 in coupons at the commissary this morning.

71. Skype

72. A chilly, rainy morning

1000 Gifts: 59-63

2011-08-22T10:39:00.000-05:00

59. Waking up and falling back asleep to thunder, lightening, and lots of rain. I love storms!

60. My husband thought he improved last night, but was sick after midnight. He went to "sick call" this morning and was given quarters for 48 hours and a bag full of medicine. He hasn't slowed down all summer, so I'm viewing this illness as a gift, because his body and mind needs the rest.

61. Our youngest singing her own words to the hymns in the car this morning.

62. Extra hugs and kisses each morning from our Kindergartener at drop-off.

63. Getting a call from my parents yesterday afternoon. They were biking at a state park I used to work at. Dad called Mom his "blond girlfriend" and they were giggling. It was so sweet to picture them enjoying their day without any wedding stresses.

1000 Gifts: 51-58

2011-08-21T18:51:00.000-05:00

51. Being back in church after spending the last three Sundays in MN.

52. Roasted chicken and Farmer's Market mashed potatoes, peas, carrots, and onions.

53. Taking care of my husband who is very sick this weekend. He is rarely sick, so it is nice to be able to care for him.

54. An incredibly supportive church family. My husband is leaving soon and since people started finding out, we've received so many nice emails, calls, and kind words.

55. A successful first week of school for our daughter and son. We got back late last Sunday, but they woke up Monday morning with lots of energy and plowed through the first week like champs.

56. Anticipating Family Camp

57. Gaining a new brother-in-law

58. Icy cold A/C in our van thanks to my Dad and brother-in-law

1000 Gifts: 46-50

2011-07-26T18:51:00.000-05:00

46. Watching 100+ kids singing and dancing for Jesus at VBS this week.

47. Wrapping things up here, before the kids and I head to MN for my sister's wedding. We'll be able to spend 16 busy and fun-filled days with family and friends, many whom we haven't seen in years.

48. Hugging and loving on our dear friends from Idaho this weekend. We met them at the zoo after church on Sunday, spent the day together, and they stayed at our home that night. It was so wonderful and so familiar.

49. My husband coming home and telling me that he received his first "thank you" and a hand shake from his Chief. It's amazing that he's worked so hard in his 13+ years and has never been told thank you for what he does by a higher-up.

50. Watching our cherry tomato plants grow. We have over a hundred that are green!

Music

2011-07-21T13:47:00.000-05:00

These are some new songs that I am loving lately...

1000 Gifts: 41-45

2011-07-18T22:19:00.000-05:00

41. A venti, iced Americano with 2 packets of raw and a spash of skim milk when the heat index is

115 degrees.

42. Anticipating the birth of our second niece, or first nephew in September.

43. An unexpected, sweet, and encouraging phone call from a lady in our church today.

44. Getting to see a family that was so dear to us when we were stationed in Idaho. They are passing through on Sunday and we'll be meeting them at the zoo and sharing a picnic with them.

45. The kids spending three hours playing in the pool, sprinkler, and sandbox this evening. They are such a tight little trio and it is so nice to have them together again.

1000 Gifts: 36-40

2011-07-17T13:20:00.000-05:00

36. Sneaking away for a couple of hours, so I could stop for a sandwich and do some book browsing before Bible study last Wednesday.

37. Picking up our oldest after she spent a week with her grandparents. It is SO nice having all my sweeties back under one roof for the rest of the summer,.

And, surviving our trip to KC yesterday. I have no problems driving in bigger cities, but it proved to be more of a challenge yesterday. Our A/C isn't as cold as it should be, we had to take some detours due to the flooding, our youngest got car sick and lost her stomach a few times on the way, and we still haven't replaced our GPS that died 9 months ago. Did I mention my husband had to work, so he couldn't go with us? I eventually found my way there and back. 12 hours later, we were home. The house was clean!

38. Awesome worship and sermon today. We came home with a lot to talk and think about.

39. God is taking us on a new path this fall/winter, one that we haven't been down for a long time. It will be exciting to see how we all grow and what he has in store for us.

40. Watching the Twins play today and remembering how much fun we had with my family a few weeks ago at Target Field.

I am not a cowboy hat wearing girl, but they were giving them away when we were at the game. The little sweetie is our niece.

1000 Gifts: 31-35

2011-07-06T09:22:00.000-05:00

31. An early afternoon family hike on Independence Day

32. Fresh cut watermelon

33. Family stopping through for a visit this weekend
34. Our oldest daughter's world getting even bigger this week
35. Early morning sun peaking through the blinds

1000 Gifts: 26-30

2011-07-03T07:25:00.000-05:00

26. Waking up to thunder and rain at 6:30am

27. Quiet time before everyone wakes up for church

28.. Copious amounts of big, juicy blueberries and rhubarb from my very giving sister

29. A late afternoon date yesterday with our oldest daughter before she leaves for camp

30. The sound of freedom as the planes from base fly over our house

1000 Gifts: 21-25

2011-07-01T21:08:00.000-05:00

21. My husband was home this morning and kept the kids mostly quiet, so I could stay in bed. I was in and out of sleep until I got up at 11:15am! I haven't stayed in bed this long since before we had kids. I've been mentally and physically drained for a long time, so this gift was incredibly appreciated.

22. An email conversation this morning that ended up releasing a huge burden from our shoulders. God is so good!

23. The kids' squeals as they play in the sprinklers for the 234th time today.

24. A new summer salad recipe from a sweet friend.

25. Still smiling from the look on my cousin's face when we surprised her at her Starbucks on our way to the cities. It was a sweet reunion.

Beth Moore: Prayer

2011-07-01T14:20:00.001-05:00

Beth Moore sure knows how to clean out the cobwebs and lube up the rusty gears in my brain. I've done her Esther, Daniel, Loving Well, A Woman's Heart: God's Dwelling Place, and He Speaks To Me studies, but Revelation definitely ranks at the top. I love that there are only a handful of questions each week, but they still manage to be thought-provoking.

These are just some random thoughts, but I wanted to get them out before I forget.

Prayer.

In Week 4, Beth makes an analogy about prayer. Picture each of your prayers going up as incense before God. They sit in a bowl, waiting for an answer in His perfect timing. Our prayers are not forgotten. They are placed before Him, because He knows exactly how and when to answer them. A question was brought up about continuing to pray for something over and over. Is this okay to do, especially if God has heard our prayer? I think it is. God wants to hear from us, He knows what is on our heart, and He wants us to express that to Him. Like any father, He wants to provide for us. I also think that praying for something more than once is okay, because we are opening our heart to Him and that is allowing us to have our heart changed if the answer to our request is "no", or "not right now." I think back to the year we were wanting a fourth child. We prayed over and over to have His will be done in that situation. In our hearts, we wanted more children, but month after month of trying and no success, He began to change our hearts. In the end, His will was done and we were at complete peace with that.

More to come on Savior Complex and respecting husband's decisions soon...

1000 Gifts: 16-20

2011-06-30T22:28:00.001-05:00

16. Air popcorn

17. The long, holiday weekend, even though my husband is on call and has to work on Saturday morning.

18. Nebraskans celebrating Independence Day every night for the past 6 nights. Legal fireworks are a new thing for us!

19. Aloe vera to soothe the effects of an extended stay at the pool on Tuesday

20. Feeling my grandma's presence while working in her house while we were home last week. I miss her so much.

1000 Gifts: 11-15

2011-06-29T13:27:00.000-05:00

11. Beth Moore study on Revelation Wednesday nights. Good stuff.

12. Blueberry Cheesecake Scentsy

13. Homemade wheat buns

14. Our sweet niece

15. Our kids' imaginative play

1000 Gifts: 6-10

2011-06-28T11:33:00.002-05:00

6. Technology. I wasn't feeling well on Sunday, so I was able to watch our church service Live on the church website.

7. Our neighborhood pool is only two blocks away. We're heading there this afternoon.

8. Picking fresh cherry tomatoes and basil from our plants. Caprese salad anyone?

9. Our newest family member sitting on my shoulder and licking my cheek as I type. More on him later.

10. My husband napping next to me in his greasy uniform and the fact that he comes home on lunch because he misses us during the day.

One Thousand Gifts List: 1-5

2011-06-27T15:19:00.001-05:00

I finally finished devouring this book.

I took it very slowly and I'm glad I did.

If you haven't read it yet, pick up a copy for yourself.

You won't be sorry.

Now that I am finished, I am starting my own list.

1. A nearly cloudless sky
2. My husband getting the opportunity to serve and use his gifts, and making new friends along the way
3. Laughter from my kids while they are playing
4. Chicken wild rice soup simmering on the stove
5. My sisters, brother, sisters-in-law, and brothers-in-law and the memories we make together

Catching Up

2011-06-26T17:24:00.000-05:00

We've had an incredibly busy couple of months!

The kids finished school and we ended our Wednesday night dinners at church, Kid's Club, and choir practice. The kids went to two weeks of Summer Enrichment at school and had a blast. They learned about technology, art, and our oldest helped write and perform a play. I started Beth Moore's "Revelation" study at church. My husband was able to help lead our church youth on a wilderness adventure in Colorado. He said it changed his life. We took a road trip to Minnesota to watch the Twins play at Target Field with my entire family, then headed WAY north to our hometown. It was a busy working vacation with lots of fun sprinkled in. We arrived home late last night to a beautifully manicured lawn courtesy of one of my husband's airmen. He brought over a package that had been delivered while we were gone and referred to me as Mrs. and Ma'am. Uffda. And yes, spell check picked up that last word. I'll post some pictures as soon as I catch my breath.

Great Prayer

2011-06-02T15:22:00.000-05:00

NeBRASKA?

2011-05-11T08:43:00.000-05:00

We love Nebraska.

When we found out we had orders here, so many people looked at us with blank stares and replied, "NeBRASKA?"

We love that it is in the Midwest. People are so friendly. When we first got here, I had to retrain myself to smile and look up when walking by people. In Nebraska, people actually smile and say "hello" to complete strangers. It is fantastic!

Where we live, there are so many things to do. If we feel like driving in the country, we can. In 15 minutes, we could be sitting down at the symphony, or enjoying a seven course dinner at a wonderful restaurant.

We are close to family. We've had so many visitors since we first moved here. We've been able to go home to Minnesota and see family in Missouri without planning for a 2-3 day car ride back. The weather is fantastic! It has been in the high 90's the past couple of days. We get all four seasons and I love that.

We found a church and knew it was "the one" after the very first Sunday. After so many years of church shopping and hopping, this was huge for us.
But, this all scares me.
This is the first place we've lived that I have opened my heart up as much as I have. In all the places we've lived across the US, I've felt that it was only temporary, so I didn't settle in. I know that anything can happen and we could be moving in two months. I am praying that our plan to stay here until my husband retires is also God's plan. But, I need to stop living in the "what ifs" and enjoy our time here like it is our forever home.

Wordless Wednesday

2011-05-04T08:38:00.000-05:00

Testimony: Part 1

2011-04-28T23:19:00.002-05:00

This is something I've been wanting to write out for years, but always thought my testimony was boring, because things were pretty "Norman Rockwell" growing up. But, someday my kids will read this, so I might as well write it out for them.

I grew up in a pretty strict, Christian home. My parents were very loving, disciplined us when needed, and taught us how to work. Manual labor is in my blood thanks to my parents teaching us to pick rocks by hand in the field (even though they owned a rock picker), push mow many acres of grass, cut down trees for firewood, raise chickens, hunt, fish, maintain our own vehicles, and on and on...

I think their goal was to teach us to be self-sufficient and to learn good work ethic. Thank you for that dad and mom (if you read my blog). My parents taught us to pray, do our devotions, and play "Bible Trivia." They were wonderful examples of loving, Godly parents and I can't thank them enough for raising us the way they did.

I attended a Lutheran church from the time I was born up until my sophomore year of high school. At the tender age of four, I told my parents I wanted to ask Jesus into my heart, so they sat down with me on our steps covered in orange shag carpet and prayed with me. At church each week, I sang hymns, recited liturgy and The Lord's prayer by heart, filled in on the piano once in awhile, prayed, and did my devotions.

I always knew there had to be more, but I wasn't sure what it was.

Confirmation and church were things I dreaded going to each week. At church and youth group, we were taught all the wrongs that would damn us to hell. Christian music with a beat, dancing, prom, dating without a chaperone, alcohol of any kind, and smoking were some of those wrongs. Our pastor had his own agenda and that is what he drilled into us each week. In confirmation, I was taught by him. I rarely, rarely use the word hate, but I can honestly say that I hated confirmation. I didn't mind the homework, which included memorizing a large part of Luther's Small Catechism, but attending each week was the last thing I wanted to do. I would find every excuse in the book to not have to go on Wednesday mornings. The God my parents taught me about and the God I was taught about during confirmation, youth group, and Sunday mornings weren't the same. In my heart, I hoped that my parents were right.

Shortly after I was confirmed, our church split and our family went to another Lutheran church in the area with a different (and wonderful) pastor. At the same time, I started hanging around with a group of kids that attended the Covenant church in town. They were always talking about how much fun they had at Youth Group, Release Time, and Sunday school. They talked about praise songs, which is something I knew nothing about. They started inviting me to Youth Group and that is when I learned about having a relationship with a loving God.

Easter Reflection: The Resurrection

2011-04-24T08:41:00.000-05:00

Happy Easter!

Easter Reflection: Waiting

2011-04-23T09:25:00.000-05:00

Thank you.

2011-04-23T01:20:00.002-05:00

I've spent the past week really reflecting on the resurrection and the events leading up to it. Our church had a Maundy Thursday service and tonight was our Good Friday service. I'm sitting here tonight with a heavy heart, unable to sleep. Easter has never meant more to me than it does this year.

As the kids and I were driving today, the topic on the radio was Easter. The station wanted people to call in, or leave messages on their Facebook page with their thoughts on Easter. A lady called in and explained that she had gone to Maundy Thursday and was so sad after. She said she also watched "The Passion" and shouldn't have because it made her so upset that she cried through the whole thing. For some reason, what she had to say sat wrong with me.

Why should we only focus on the happy parts of Easter and not the grueling course of events He had to endure? I think it is because the thought of death is scary for some people and the details of Christ's death are incredibly gruesome. Could it also be difficult for us as believers, being we know why He went through what He did and that causes us to reflect on our own sin? So, why do we keep sinning over and over again? Wouldn't something as big as Jesus dying on the cross make us want to stop? On a perfect earth that would be easy, but we are sinners and we live in an imperfect world. I look forward to the day where the darkness will turn into light, where there will be no more sorrow, pain, evil, and suffering. I look forward to the day when I meet my Jesus face-to-face, hold His hands that were pierced for me, and thank Him for all that He has done.

Easter Reflections: Good Friday

2011-04-22T09:41:00.000-05:00

Easter Reflection: Judgement Before the Sanhedrin

2011-04-21T10:43:00.000-05:00

Easter Reflection: Betrayal

2011-04-20T09:38:00.001-05:00

Easter Reflection: The Last Supper

2011-04-19T09:15:00.000-05:00

"Do this in remembrance of me." 1 Corinthians 11:24

Easter Reflection: Palm Sunday

2011-04-19T09:04:00.002-05:00

If you've been reading my blog for awhile, you know that Easter is my favorite holiday. In fact, if you type "Easter" into the search bar on my blog, a bunch of results will come up. So, instead of writing about Easter this year, I want to post a video series that Matt Maher is doing during Holy Week, starting with Palm Sunday. The videos are short, but so worth watching. I pray that you will be able to reflect on the true meaning of Easter and will remember to give thanks to Him for making the ultimate sacrifice for us.
"Blessed is he who comes in the name of the Lord." Mark 11:9

Books of the Months: April-May

2011-04-13T13:21:00.000-05:00

Because my reading over the winter and early spring has been pretty deep, I am going for something more light for April and May. Feel free to join me if you'd like!

The Happiness Project

Organized Simplicity

Kansas City Getaway

2011-04-13T10:08:00.001-05:00

We had so much fun in KC a few weekends ago!

Our first stop was Kaleidoscope at the Crown Center.

After spending time making some pretty awesome creations, we walked over to Under the Sea Adventure at the Crown Center.

Our next stop was Fritz's Railroad Restaurant, also located in the Crown Center, for lunch.

Our food order was placed over the phone in our booth and was delivered on a train above our heads.

Super fun!

After we ate, the kids got to meet a real-life mermaid. Our son was completely embarrassed and wanted nothing to do with her. He often gets shy around pretty girls!

After posing with the mermaid, we took the sky walk to Union Station. We did a little shopping, checked out their incredible train exhibit, and posed with Albert Einstein.

After visiting Union Station, we drove into Kansas City, KS for a wild experience at T-Rex Cafe. Our wait time was almost 1 1/2 hours. There was plenty to do while we waited. The kids went to Build-A-Dino, unearthed dinosaur bones, and more. While we ate, the dinosaurs came to life and a volcano exploded. The food was great and the portions were huge! Next time, we'll be sharing an entree.

We had so much fun in Kansas City with the grandparents. We can't wait to go back and try the BBQ and maybe take in a Royals-Twins game!

Thankful Thursday

2011-04-07T08:49:00.001-05:00

Today, I am thankful for...

1. The chance to go to camp this weekend to help with some spring cleaning. Our daughter is going to camp for the first time this summer, so we are so thankful for the chance to go there as a family, so the transition will be a little bit easier.

2. Hot coffee and yummy oatmeal on a chilly morning.

3. A God that provides. My husband may not be getting a paycheck due to budget resolutions not being met within the government, but I know we'll be okay.

4. A family in our church invited us to their home for Easter dinner!

5. Christian radio. I've especially been enjoying these songs as we near the start of Holy Week and Easter.

Christ is Risen

One Pure and Holy Passion

Jesus Paid it All

Glorious Day

And our kids' favorites at the moment:

Daughter

Son

Daughter

What are you thankful for today?

Will your family be affected if the government doesn't come to a resolution?

What are your favorite songs right now?

Pain at the Pump

2011-04-06T10:35:00.002-05:00

According to gasbuddy.com, the highest price for gas in our town is a whoppin' $3.85!
At the station where we buy our gas, we will be paying $3.66 with our gas program. That is a $.20 rise from a few days ago.
It is time for our family to start doing something about this.

Where we burn our gas on an average week:

Daughter's school: 20 miles

Son's school: 30 miles

Husband's work: 60 miles

Church: 66 miles

Miscellaneous errands and outings: 30 miles

Total miles/week: Appx. 206

Where can we cut down on miles?

Now that it is warm, we can walk to our daughter's school in the afternoon to pick her up: -10 miles

Our son will be finishing school at the end of this month: -30 miles

I could pack my husband's lunch, so he wouldn't have to come home each day: -30 miles

By May 1st, we could be saving 70 miles/week worth of gas! When we are done with choir in May, that will knock off an additional 33 miles. Around the same time, our daughter will be done with school, so that will knock off an additional 10 miles. By June 1st, we'll be saving 113 miles/week worth of gas.

Miscellaneous errand miles can be reduced as well, once I find a new tire for my bike. I should probably invest in a basket too.

What are you doing to cut down on driving in your family?
How much are you paying for gas where you live?

Military Marriage

2011-04-05T10:17:00.004-05:00

My husband and I are nearing 17 years of being together and will be celebrating 11 years of marriage in June. We've often been asked how we make it work. After all, military marriages do not have the greatest success rate. In fact, there were 27,312 divorces (active-duty) throughout all four branches of the military in 2009 alone. Sobering stats, aren't they?

We are not experts and our marriage has not been perfect by any means. It has required a lot of work, patience, give and take, tears, and a lot of prayer.

What works for us?

Faith and Friends: In the military, the mission always comes first. In our marriage, God comes first. Before we get stationed at a new base, the first thing we start researching is churches. When we find a church, we attend and get involved as a family. We try and surround ourselves with Christian friends who will build us up. It is important for each of us to get involved with men and women's groups, so we can have accountability. We established early on in our marriage that we will keep personal issues to ourselves, and not bash each other in front of our friends. If we have an issue with each other, we discuss it.

Family: We have fun together! Shortly after our oldest daughter was born, we designated Friday night as family movie, or game night. We can do these activities regardless of where we are. It is something we all look forward to and have a part in. We make a fun meal, choose a few movies to watch, or games to play, and the kids help prepare the snacks. We also laugh with each other. On Sunday, one of the greeters at church walked down the sidewalk by our vehicle as we were unloading the kids. I turned around, extended my hand to shake his and said, "good morning!" When I looked up, it was my husband. The greeter was long gone. We're still laughing about this.

Finances: Money can be a huge source of conflict in a marriage. After a few years of being married, we finally figured out a plan. We share the financial responsibilities.
My husband brings home the paycheck.
He is in charge of his TSP (retirement fund), college funds for the kids, and savings.
I pay all of our bills, deal with our insurance, and do our taxes.
We budget together.
Being I am able to stay at home, I feel it is my job to save us as much money as possible.
I cut coupons, use coupon and free shipping codes for online purchases, use gas points when filling up our vehicles, meal plan, and earn checks through consigning. When our kids grow out of their clothes and shoes, I consign them and use that money for their new clothes and shoes.
We pay cash for everything, and have one credit card for emergencies.
We always buy used vehicles and work on paying them off right away.
We don't discuss finances when there are stressors around us. We set aside a specific time, when it is quiet and kid free.

Love: We usually don't get couple-time until after the kids go to bed. By that time, we are usually so exhausted we just sit on the couch, talk, and rub each other's feet. If he rents a "shoot-em'-up" action movie, or I rent a romantic comedy, we watch the movie together, no matter how uninterested we may be!
As you all know, date night rarely happens when you are in a military marriage with kids. There is no family around to watch the kids and trusted babysitters are hard to come by. I think the longest stretch we had without a date was three years! If you find yourself in the same boat, have a date night at home after the kids go to bed. I remember my parents doing this many times when I was a kid. Maybe that is how they've made their marriage work for 36 years!

Explore: Don't stop learning about your spouse. My husband and I have changed so much since we first started dating. These are some great books to read that will help you learn more about your spouse.
The Five Love Languages
Love & Respect
Sacred Marriage
Night Light for Couples
The Power of a Praying Wife
The Power of a Praying Husband

Safeguard: Set boundaries for your marriage! We live in a very corrupt world with temptations lingering around every corner. When my husband was serving in Korea, he saw firsthand how infidelity ruined marriages. Don't think for one minute that you are exempt from this if you are a Christian couple. Infidelity can demolish any marriage.
The following article is very thorough and does a better job explaining why I think this is one of the most important points in keeping marriages in tact.
Did God Really Say? Setting Godly Boundaries in Marriage

Pray: Pray, pray, pray!
Pray alone, pray together.
If your husband doesn't feel comfortable praying out loud with you, put your arm around him while he is sleeping. Pray for him, pray for yourself, your kids, your money, and your marriage. If you are feeling distant from your spouse, ask God to help you reconnect. Ask God to help you love your spouse again, ask Him to protect your marriage from the evils of the world. God is always listening and wants nothing more than to be the center of your marriage.

What do you do to keep your marriage in tact?

Simple Gifts

2011-04-04T16:08:00.000-05:00

Lord, Send Me

2011-04-03T14:43:00.004-05:00

I have a recurring dream once, or twice a year. It is the type of dream that is so vivid. I wake up with my heart pounding and I'm in tears. I can never fall asleep after these dreams.

In my dream, I am standing outside the gates of Heaven. It isn't bright and cheery. It is dimly lit, very quiet, and everyone is somber. One by one, people walk up to the gate. I am always at the back of the line and never quite make it to the front. Random people that I've come across in my life file back out, walking past me with sad, accusing looks on their faces. It's as if they're saying, "Why didn't you tell me?" As I see their faces, my heart aches more and more. Why didn't I invite them to church? Why didn't I ask them to come along to PWOC with me? Why didn't I extend an invitation to share a meal at our home? Why didn't I simply ask if there was something they needed me to pray for?

"It is true that God may have called you to be exactly where you are. But it's absolutely vital to grasp that He didn't call you there so you could settle in and live out your life in comfort and superficial peace. His purposes are not random or arbitrary. If you are still alive on this planet, it's because He has something for you to do. He placed us on this earth for purposes that He orchestrated long before we were born (Eph. 2:8-10). Do you believe you exist not for your own pleasure but to help people know the love of Jesus and to come fully alive in Him? If so, then that will shape how you live your life in the place where you are."

Francis Chan, Forgotten God

While skimming through Forgotten God this afternoon, I came across the above quote which fell perfectly in line with our pastor's sermon this morning. I've read this quote before and have heard sermons on Ephesians 2 in the past, but today something was different. I don't want to simply exist. I want to serve. I want to reach out to people, so they can know Him and be alive in Him! I don't want to miss out on chances to witness to the people around me. I don't want to sit idle, but I need to be patient and wait for God to show me what His plan is for my life.

2:00am Musings

2011-04-03T02:53:00.004-05:00

I went to bed way too early last night. Now it is 2:00am and I'm waiting for the time to pass, so I can get ready for the day.

Weekend sports: The Twins lost twice to Toronto to start off the season.

VCU lost to Butler

Kentucky lost to UConn

It was a losing weekend for sports, but I still had fun watching with my husband.

And, I appreciate that he watches baseball with me. Even if it is for two innings.

Yesterday morning, I woke up and left the house while everyone was still sleeping. I was so proud of myself for not waking anyone up until I opened my husband's vehicle to get the cell charger out of it. His car alarm went off and I couldn't get it shut off. It woke up our house and I'm sure everyone else on our street!

After the alarm debacle, I left for church to help out with some spring cleaning. It was a gorgeous day out and I got to spend time with some great people.

In the evening, we had a fire, the kids made s'mores, played in the sand box, and jumped on the trampoline. It made me miss our awesome group of Idaho friends and our old house and yard. I know we'll make close friends in time, but it is hard starting over again.

I'm thinking about where we are going to live when my husband retires in a little over six years. We love it here and will probably put down roots, but we feel drawn to MN, because that is where our family is. If only we could pick up everything we love here and move it north!

I gave up Facebook for Lent and have only been on there to write/reply to a couple of messages. I don't spend a lot of time on there in the first place, but it has been nice focusing on other things.

I really need to get back into memorizing James.

The kids want an animal. My husband wants a lab, but if we get a dog, I'd like something small. Maybe we'll start with a couple of fish instead.

We've never taken a real vacation. We've traveled all over the US and Canada with the AF, but never to a specific vacation destination. I wonder if we can get away to go skiing in Colorado next winter. I miss the mountains!

I am so proud of my husband and the work he does. For the past 8 years, or so he's felt called into some aspect of ministry, but he doesn't know what. He's an incredible communicator, mentor, and counselor. I appreciate the face that he is staying with his job, even if the technical side of it isn't his passion.

I can't wait to go home this summer and spend time at the lake. I'm not really into fishing, but it is fun being in the boat and watching the kids fish with grandpa and grandma. There is nothing better than going out for a swim in the evening while the lake is like glass, or falling asleep to the sound of waves.

My favorite holiday is in three weeks!

I just realized that if I throw in Pride and Prejudice now, it will be done by the time I need to get ready for church.

New Plan

2011-04-02T14:01:00.000-05:00

Well, after a lot of prayer, thinking, and discussing, I have a new plan.

Starting at the end of August, I will be taking a nursing refresher course.

When the class is done in December, I will have my Nebraska LPN license.

From there, I don't know what I'll do, but at least it's a start.

A Heart Change

2011-03-31T09:23:00.003-05:00

Are you critical of your spouse?

Do you think of all the things he, or she does that is ruining your relationship?

If he would only...

If she would just stop...

Why can't he learn to...

If we did it my way...

If he paid attention to me more, I would be willing to...

If she spent more time with me, then I would...

Have you taken time to examine your own heart?

Oftentimes, we expect our spouse to fill up every empty space in our heart.

What a huge undertaking for a human being! Is that even possible? How would we feel if our spouse expected us to do the same?

Today you need to do the laundry, change diapers, cook three square meals, make snacks, clean the house, pay the bills, go to work, take classes, get the kids to school and practice on time, help out with homework, work out, take time for God, and oh, make sure your spouse is 100% happy and fulfilled no matter what mood you're in, or how tired you may be. And, all of this needs to be done with a smile on your face and a song in your heart.

Sounds impossible, doesn't it?

Then why do we expect our spouses to meet our every need and not go to God first?

Do we do this out of selfishness, insecurity, is it because we demand instant gratification and affirmation?

Whatever void you are feeling in your life, give your spouse a break, and go to God first.

He will supply your every need, make you feel beautiful, love you unconditionally, listen to you, and embrace your every being. All you have to do is ask.

Happy Spring Giveaway: Winner!

2011-03-27T18:11:00.001-05:00

We are back from our weekend getaway to Kansas City and boy, was it fun!

Look for recap of the weekend sometime this week.

And, now to the giveaway winner...

Here are your random numbers: 6 Timestamp: 2011-03-27 23:04:39 UTCComment #6:
Courtney Rae!

"In all honesty, there are so many things I love about Spring. But to choose just one thing... I'd say that I love the wardrobe change. Spring means it's time to break out the skirts, dresses, shorts and flip flops!"

Thank you for leaving me all of the fun comments on what you love about Spring!

New Every Morning

2011-03-24T08:23:00.000-05:00

It's a brand new day!

My Dad always told me that our problems will seem smaller after a good night's rest.

It is true. Last night I fell asleep praying.

I am much more clear-headed this morning. Thank you for reading, commenting, and emailing me regarding this post. Speaking of posts, have you entered my "Happy Spring" giveaway? My real life friends can enter to win too. We are getting away this weekend on a much needed mini vacation. Have a great weekend!

Through the Lord’s mercies we are not consumed,

Because His compassions fail not.

They are new every morning;

Great is Your faithfulness.

~Lamentations 3:22-23

Wisdom and Discernment

2011-03-23T21:42:00.001-05:00

You know that feeling you get when you want something so bad and you can't have it?

It's that kind of pit in the stomach, aching, yearning feeling that you just can't get rid of.

I've had that for over 10 years now. I want nothing more than to be a Nurse Practitioner. But, as many military wives now, it's not about us. I've had to transfer schools so many times and even withdrew from classes, because we've had to move. The only reason I got my LPN license, was because he was serving in Korea for a whole year.

When we got to Nebraska, I breathed a huge sigh of relief, knowing that we will be here until he retires in 7 years. I found a school right away, applied, had my transcripts sent, got accepted, then ran into a wall. A group of core classes from some previous schools might not transfer in because of semester/quarter and credit conversion issues. I should have heard back at the end of January and as of last night, I still hadn't heard. My emails weren't being answered, my advisor said she had no idea what was wrong. I started to take it personally.

Is nursing really in the plan God has for me? And if not, why does my heart skip a beat when I see an ambulance, or someone needing medical assistance? Why did I take a break from school shortly after I got married because in my heart elementary education wasn't my passion?

So, I sit here tonight, back at square one.

Heart for missions + Helping people = ???

I have no clue where to go from here, or if I even should continue to pursue nursing. I have dreams of working in a mission field, nursing people back to health. But, maybe my mission field is right here at home where my entire focus should be on raising up our three children and not taking the time I have with them for granted.

Is the thick-headed Scandinavian in me viewing these doors closing as mere bumps in the road?

I'm really needing some wisdom and discerment.

Writing about missions got me thinking of a trip I took in the 90's to Ciudad Obregon, Mexico. I had this CD in my discman at the time, so whenever I hear this song, I think of the people in Mexico that changed my heart forever. But, that's an entirely different post I'll have to write someday.

Happy Spring Giveaway

2011-03-20T18:53:00.000-05:00

Happy Spring!

If you've been reading my blog for awhile, you know that this is one of my favorite times of the year.

I think this calls for a giveaway for my wonderful readers.

Now for the goodies...

One $5.00 Starbucks gift card

The latest issue of All You magazine

One box of Trader Joe's High Brow chocolate chips cookies

The Rules:

You don't have to link this post to anything.

You don't have to get referrals, or tell your 50 closest friends about this giveaway either.

Talk to me! Tell me your absolute favorite thing about Spring.

This giveaway will end on March 27th @ 12:00pm CST.

I will notify the winner that afternoon and ship your goodies to you on Monday morning.

Luck of the Irish

2011-03-17T10:16:00.002-05:00

Growing up, I rarely thought twice about St. Patrick's Day. Some years, I would remember to wear green to school, because back in those days pinching was still okay. For supper, or dinner, depending on where you come from, we'd eat corned beef and cabbage, prepared by my Grandma. My Grandma's father was Irish and their last name was Kelly, which is also my middle name.

After Grandma passed away, each of my siblings and parents have carried on St. Patrick's Day traditions. Maybe it is more fun now that I am older and have kids of my own?

So, this morning as I work on our evening meal with my favorite Irish bands playing in the background, I think of my Grandma and all of the wonderful memories we created together.

Happy St. Patrick's Day!

Our Evening Meal

Corned beef brisket w/roasted carrots, green onions, and cabbage

Sauteed brussels sprouts w/ bacon

Roasted red potatoes

Irish soda bread

Guinness cupcakes

On Babies, Overconfidence, and God

2011-03-10T08:48:00.003-06:00

My husband and I love children. Newborns, babies, toddlers, preschoolers, school-aged, you name it. We love being parents and always said we'd have two children, a boy and a girl. After having each, we felt like our family wasn't complete. After our youngest was a few months shy of turning two, we decided that we would have one more. My husband couldn't stand having one open seat at our dining-room table!

Getting pregnant came easy for us each time. Our first and second were complete surprises, both conceived while on BC. Unfortunately, we lost our second child around the 10 week mark. After a routine GYN appointment, my doctor discussed natural family planning with me because there was a chance that BC doesn't work with my hormones.
We conceived our last two children within a month of trying. People joked with us that we could get pregnant by just thinking about it. We considered ourselves blessed, as many of our friends haven't had it so easy.

Fast-forward to September of 2009. We decided to have one more. Our final child and our youngest would be 2 1/2 years apart. We had the dates planned, so they would be no more than 3 years apart in school. We would have a summer baby, so I wouldn't have to deal with the Idaho heat while 9 months pregnant. We planned and planned, we had it all figured out. Or, so we thought.

I was convinced I was pregnant in October, then November, and most definitely December. We decided that if we didn't conceive by August, we would be done.
During the early months of 2010, I realized that it really isn't our plan. It is God's plan. They are not our children, they are His. He has complete control over conception. We can intervene, but He is in charge.

During this time, He changed our hearts. He knocked us down to where we should be. By August, He told us that our family was complete. We slowly started getting rid of baby things. By September, our only focus was on the children we already had and our wonderful future with them.
And, that empty seat at the table? It would have been filled by the child we lost, and in our hearts it always will be.

Books of the Months: January-March

2011-02-26T09:04:00.000-06:00

My goal for reading two books per month was a little far-fetched. I'm still working on Made to Crave and One Thousand Gifts. They are the type of books you can't just skim through and pass on to a friend, or put back on the bookshelf. They are that good! I will be adding one more book to my reads and extending my reading through the end of March. If you'd like to join me, I'll be re-reading Donald Miller's A Million Miles in a Thousand Years. This is another great book by Miller and I can't wait to dig into it again. I know many of you are reading the first two books I listed. What do you think of them? Are you being transformed? I'd love to hear your thoughts. Do I have any readers who are Donald Miller fans? Happy Saturday!

Working on those walls.

2011-01-27T14:43:00.001-06:00

One Thousand Gifts

2011-01-21T15:36:00.002-06:00

It is finally here!

After having it sit in my Amazon cart for over a month, waiting until the release date, then waiting an extra day for shipping due to inclement weather, One Thousand Gifts arrived neatly tucked between our front doors this afternoon.
There are so many bloggers posting that they have received their copy too. Are you reading this book? I'd love to hear what you think of it.

I am staying in this weekend, tucked between my sheets and down comforter. I plan to warm my insides with coffee and hot cocoa, and possibly some fresh banana bread.

Happy Friday!

Happy to Be Even

2011-01-16T16:48:00.002-06:00

I have many, many quirks. Just ask my husband. Thankfully he embraces them, or chooses to remain quiet. Most of the time.

First of all, I am a numbers person. I remember phone numbers, addresses, PLU #'s off of items that were hard to scan at my grocery store job in high school.

One of these quirks is that I don't like being an odd numbered age. Today, I turned 32 and I felt a sense of relief. 32 flows off the tongue so much easier than 31. It looks nicer too. But, it feels older.

Two signs that I am older today...

1. When I walked out of church, I was looking for the vehicle we didn't drive today.

I couldn't remember where we parked, so I wandered the lot aimlessly with a sheepish grin on my face . I then remembered my husband dropped me off at the door when we got to church. He parked on the side.

2. I received some birthday money in the mail. I am drooling over the fact that I get to splurge on a new garbage can for our kitchen. I'm thinking something stainless steel. With the money left over, I am going to buy some apothecary jars for our bathroom.

I started my day with coffee in bed, soft boiled eggs, bacon, and toast with my sister's homemade jam.

Lunch was spent at Whole Foods.

I browsed Trader Joe's while the family sat in the car.

For supper, we'll be eating something not cooked by me and a delicious lemon Viennese tart, not baked by me.

My birthday revolved around not having to cook. What a perfect gift!

Christmas Break

2011-01-05T11:10:00.003-06:00

Today is the last day of Christmas break. I love having my kids home and have purposely put off errands all week, so we could just veg and catch up on housework. Computer and TV time was at their discretion, so was bedtime. We had a wonderful holiday in Minnesota and loved spending time with just our little family creating memories. We had a real tree this year. It looked and smelled wonderful! I hope the kids get a lot of snow days this winter, so we can make a few more snow angels.

This post is over two months behind. Apparently, I forgot to hit "publish."

Book of the Month: January

2011-01-03T11:56:00.000-06:00

Perfect for the new year!

Check out the video, it is a fun play on Psalm 23.

What are you reading this month?

Merry Christmas

2010-12-30T11:57:00.001-06:00

I am a calendar celebrator when it comes to holidays. I don't think it's because I am a little "Type A", but more so that I love to cherish each holiday to the fullest. For example, I refuse to step foot in any Halloween aisle when the kids are still on summer break. I don't break out my Scentsy fall scents if the calendar reads any date earlier than September 22nd, or 23rd. Pumpkin pie, apple cider, and turkey aren't melded with the flavors of campfire hot dogs and s'mores.

Thanksgiving oftentimes gets overlooked because consumer Christmas radiates through the speakers of department stores and the "Garden Center" morphs into a Christmas "paradise" while we are purchasing our back-to-school items. Blow-up snowmen, life-sized snow globes, beer drinking Santa Clauses, Elves singing "Grandma Got Ran Over by a Reindeer" and more can be found. Which brings me to my next point.

This year, I broke out of my shell because I kind of had to. My husband and I joined our church choir in October and at that point in time we were understandably working on Christmas pieces. Tomorrow evening is our Christmas concert and tea. Months of preparation before December 1st rolls around. I'll admit that up until a couple of weeks ago, I was just singing the words. I was working on notes, trying to perfect the harmonies, circling crescendos, tempo changes, and trying to remember what p, f, pf, fp, etc. stood for.

After getting more comfortable with the music, I couldn't help but hear the words.

There are two songs in our set that I have a hard time singing without getting choked up. "The Little Drummer Boy" is one of them. How many hundreds (?) of times have we sang this song? Have we taken in the words, or are we just singing it because it is fun, easy, and we know it by memory?

The drummer boy was called to see the newborn King. He wanted to honor Him, but had nothing to bring because he was poor. So, he asked Mary if he could play for them. She nodded. He played his BEST for Him and He smiled at him. All we need to do is humble ourselves before God and give Him our best. He loves us unconditionally, no matter what we have to offer.

The next song is called "He Came Down." It is written by Geron Davis, the same guy who wrote "Holy Ground." I'm not a huge fan of how the chorus is set up, but our soloist has so much passion in her voice when she sings the verses and that's what gets me every time. I searched for a video of this song, but came across some funky disco song and a Bill Gaither song. Anyway, it talks about how He could have done so many things for Himself and not for us.
Here are some examples...
He could have called a thousand angels to surround Himself with praise.
He could have chosen not to leave His throne on high.
He could have pointed to His miracles as evidence of Grace.
He could have come in robes of splendor, instead of swaddling clothes.
He could have said how much He loves us with just words.
He could have offered up a sacrifice that's less than what He chose, and gave us only what our sin deserved.
Instead, He came down so we could have eternal life!

Remember the reason for the season!

I am obviously finishing this post after our concert and after Christmas. Our concert went well. I actually got choked up a couple of times during the songs. I hope you had a very Merry Christmas and were able to capture many beloved memories with friends and family. I am on an Internet hiatus, so I'll be back to posting on Monday.

"Doing" Halloween

2010-12-14T11:07:00.000-06:00

I've been asked many times if we "do" Halloween. We do to an extent, but do not focus on the horrors and evil spirits of it. My husband and I both grew up trick-or-treating (usually with our snowsuits covering our costumes). We enjoy carving pumpkins, roasting pumpkin seeds, picking out costumes, and consuming the candy (which we still have by the way). This year was a bit chilly, but the kids manage to last about an hour outside.

Jetty Rae

2010-12-14T10:48:00.001-06:00

Back in November, Sami Jo, a blog friend of mine, had a giveaway. It was for a Jetty Rae CD. At the time, I had never heard of Jetty Rae, so I decided to follow a couple of links in herHousehold's blog. I was so happy to be introduced to the super fun and soothing music of Jetty Rae. Her music is an awesome mix of folk, soul, jazz, etc. Each song is so different and unique, so it fits every mood. Check her out, you won't be disappointed!
Thank you, Sami Jo, for the two CD's! I can't wait to share them. :)

Come Lord Jesus, be our guest...

2010-12-14T10:29:00.000-06:00

Did you pray that mealtime prayer growing up?

It has been a very busy fall. My parents came to visit at the end of October. They loaded up the back of their caravan with our new-to-us china hutch and many, many totes filled with wedding presents that we have never used! We have been married 10 1/2 years. Included in our wedding presents were our china, crystal, stemware, and silverware. We have never used them, because of the amount of moving we do, they were bound to break. My dad was a huge help to us by setting up the new hutch. My mom helped unpack totes and washed everything. What a job! The night before my parents left, my mom made a beautiful meal and dressed up my new dining room with a few extra pretties she found at Gordmans. She loves to decorate and I am so thankful for her. Here are the before and after pictures.

Giving Thanks

2010-11-29T15:48:00.000-06:00

After moving to Nebraska, holidays with our extended families is much more doable. For Thanksgiving this year, we drove down to St. Louis to spend the weekend with my husband's birth mom and her family. It was a fantastic weekend, filled with so much food, love, newness, memory-making, and friendship building. One of the highlights of our trip was taking a walk down to the lake. On the way there, we passed a fort in a wooded ravine. We could tell the builders of this fort were long gone, but they kept everything in tact for passersby. The kids helped rebuild the fort, played on the tire swing, and posed for some pictures. We made memories that we will cherish forever and are so thankful that we have this new family and extended family that has welcomed us in like their own.

This post is four months behind. Apparently, I forgot to hit "publish."

Be Still

2010-10-25T10:13:00.001-05:00

Hundreds of bites

Itching

Scratching

Antihistamine

Hydrocortisone

Borax

Raid for fleas

Carpet powder for fleas

Pest control
New home?
Previous tenants left us a gift.
Every piece of clothing, linens, towels, pillows being washed
Confining them to the bathroom
Vacuuming two hours a day
Moving furniture
Spreading Borax

Tears

Playstation drops four feet and dies

Clogged kitchen sinks

Turn on dishwasher, sinks fill even more

Drano didn't work
Stinky kitchen
Plunger didn't work
Unclogging crystals
Used too much on purpose
The sink is unclogged!
I killed the garbage disposal.
Hotel overnight
Didn't want to leave
Target to escape
An hour to myself
I'm the crazy lady who can't get the popcorn in her mouth
Thank you, Mr. Sweeper man
Trying to smile at other moms
Looking for a friend
Any friend.
Husband's new job
Trying not to put anymore stress on him
Doing this myself
Heavy heart
Resentment
Can't unpack boxes
Parents come in three days
No room for their bed
Too many boxes
Knocked over favorite plant and pot
Broken
Dirt everywhere
What next, God?
Sniffles
Tears
Sobs
Hyperventilating
For two hours.
A new morning
A beautiful red and pink sunrise
A morning prayer (plea)
Remembering I'm not alone.
A warm hand on my shoulder
A voice saying...
"Be still, and know that I am God: I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in the earth."
Psalm 46:10

We Arrived!

2010-10-14T14:22:00.001-05:00

We made it to Nebraska!

The only glitch in the whole trip was that my husband left his brand new North Face winter coat hanging up in our hotel room in South Dakota. The friendly folks at the Holiday Inn-Express in Watertown are mailing it to us. This is one more reason why we are happy to be back in the Midwest!

I'll see you again as soon as I can find my way out of the 300 boxes we have to unpack.

Clothes Hoarders.

2010-08-23T11:48:00.000-05:00

30 days until the movers come to pack us out...

Yesterday I got rid of 17 pairs of shoes.

In the past two weeks, we cleaned out five Rubbermaids full of clothes from our bedroom alone,

eight adult jackets from the front closet,

many, many shoes, jackets, and clothes from the kids...

I always wondered why I had issues with laundry.

My name is Chrysanthemama. I WAS a clothes hoarder.

1st Day of 3rd Grade

2010-08-19T10:58:00.001-05:00

I'm not quite sure how it happened, but we have a 3rd grader!

How did she go from this, to the big girl in the picture below?

This year, she insisted on choosing her own outfit. So, she put together a combination of Macy's, Justice, Target, and our Thrift Store. She is my little artist and I love to see what she comes up with.

Her favorite subjects are reading, music, and P.E. She loves everything related to art, especially design and is really excited that her new school will offer art class! We were hesitant to send her to school being it will only be 1 1/2 months before our move. She adjusts easily and wanted to go, so we felt more comfortable with the decision.

Summer Recap

2010-08-19T10:38:00.000-05:00

Where did the summer go?

It seems like yesterday that the kids and I were going over our summer schedule, trying to fit in learning, vacation, play dates, and fun.

We did a lot less camping then we had planned, but we may try and sneak in one more trip before the month is over. We had a wonderful visit with my mother-in-law in June. The kids love spending time with her. She brought so many neat activities for the kids. We spent an incredible few weeks in Minnesota. Saying "goodbye" this time was a piece of cake, knowing that we will be closer very soon. When we were home, we started focusing in on some desirable locations where we may put our roots down in 7 years. Who knows, maybe we'll fall in love with Omaha and want to stay there permanently instead of MN? This week has been full of doctor and dentist appointments, a meeting with the moving company to see how much stuff they'll have to pack, school started, we had a garage sale, PWOC, and we're trying to sell 2 of our vehicles.

Things are going to get even crazier as we get closer to moving, but it's good.

Happy Father's Day!

2010-06-20T09:55:00.002-05:00

Happy Father's Day 2010!

I haven't had much time for blogging lately, but I just wanted to share what I wrote to my husband two years ago. He is still the best husband and father in the world and I love him dearly.

To you, my love!

Military Spouse "Where I Find My Strength"

2010-05-08T17:33:00.001-05:00

Our family motto is "Faith, Family, Friends."

It may seem a little cliche being you can find the phrase printed on almost anything at most gift shops.

When we were stationed in Alaska, I found a beautiful print with this phrase written on it. I liked the way it looked, and I liked that it had Scripture references as well. I find my strength in the following, and when I keep it in the correct order of importance, things in my life run smoothly.

Faith

"...I will show thee my faith by my works."

James 2:18

Family

"...And all thy children shall be taught of the Lord."

Isaiah 54:13

Friends

"...that a man lay down his life for his friends."

John 15:13

Military Spouse "Why MilSpouses Rock"

2010-05-07T10:32:00.004-05:00

We are...

Teachers: We all come from different walks of life, different states and different countries. If we have an open ear, we will be able to learn so much about other spouses and their traditions, talents, and hobbies.

Nurses: We comfort each other, help fix other kids' "owies" and are there to help heal hurting hearts.

Chefs/Bakers: We cook and bake for work potlucks, playgroups, church events, holiday parties, new mommy meals, shut-ins, deployed spouses, single troops during the holidays, etc.

Psychologists/Counselors: We are there for each other to listen, offer advice, and encourage. There are so many ups and downs living this life, thank goodness we have other spouses to lean on!

Event Planners: With ease, we go from planning an event for 10 to 50 within minutes and still have a smile on our faces. We plan birthday parties, spouse functions, and more.

Family: It is rare to meet a military spouse who lives right next to her family. We have a bond so tight, sometimes tighter than actual blood. We never miss holidays, or birthday parties together. We sometimes know more about each other than our own families do.

What other roles do we play? Feel free to add more in the comments!

The role of a military spouse is multi-faceted. I encourage you all to learn about the spouses around you. Build each other up, listen when they need an ear, and try to refrain from gossip or any unwholesome talk. Happy Military Spouse Appreciation Day to the strongest, most special group of women I know!

Military Spouse "What's Cookin'"

2010-05-06T12:45:00.002-05:00

Growing up in the frozen tundra provided many opportunities to try some interesting hot drinks. The drink recipe I am providing was always served at our local hockey arena. A fun gift idea is to mix up the ingredients, spoon them into pint or half-pint sized Mason jars, cover the lid with a square of cloth, screw on the top, and tie with raffia and a little greeting! In minutes, you've got an easy, inexpensive, and delicious gift for friends and family.

~Russian Tea~

1 cup instant tea

2 cups Tang

1 tsp. cinnamon

1 tsp. cloves

1/2 cup lemonade mix

1 1/2 cups sugar (or less)

*Mix all together and keep in tightly covered jar. Use approximately two teaspoons for one cup of tea.

The next recipe I am sharing is for Spicy Red Curry Chicken from "Food and Wine." This recipe is so easy and delicious! I altered it a little bit with one of my friend's recipes to make it my own.

2/3 cup unsweetened coconut milk

2 to 3 teaspoons Thai red curry paste

1 tablespoon Asian fish sauce

3 tablespoons vegetable oil

1 1/2 pounds skinless, boneless chicken thighs, cut into 1/2-inch strips, or skinless, boneless breasts, cut into 1 1/2-inch chunks

Salt and freshly ground pepper

1/2 pound shiitake mushrooms, stemmed, caps quartered

1 tablespoon very finely chopped fresh ginger

2 large garlic cloves, very finely chopped

1/2 cup water

1 cup frozen baby peas

Cilantro leaves, for garnish

Steamed rice and lime wedges, for serving

In a small bowl, whisk the coconut milk with the curry paste and fish sauce until combined.

Heat a large wok or skillet until very hot. Add 2 tablespoons of the vegetable oil and heat until just smoking. Season the chicken with salt and pepper and add it to the wok in a single layer. Cook over high heat, turning once, until the chicken is browned but not cooked through, 4 to 5 minutes. Transfer the chicken to a plate and pour off the fat in the wok.

Add the remaining 1 tablespoon of vegetable oil to the wok. Add the shiitake caps and stir-fry over high heat until lightly browned, about 5 minutes. Add the ginger and garlic and stir-fry for 1 minute. Return the chicken and any accumulated juices to the wok. Add the red curry mixture and the water and bring to a boil. Add the frozen peas and simmer until the liquid is slightly reduced and the peas are warm, 2 to 3 minutes. Transfer the chicken curry to a serving bowl and garnish with peanuts and cilantro. Serve immediately with rice and lime wedges.

Military Spouse "A Letter to My Military Husband"

2010-05-05T14:25:00.003-05:00

To my military man,

Wow, what a ride you've taken me on for the past 12 years! On the day we got married, not only did I gain your last name, but I gained the title of "Air Force Wife." That title is so broad and I am completely honored that you chose me to be your "winglady."

We've lived in 9 homes/5 states, suffered through a miscarriage, a remote to Korea, and have 3 beautiful children. We've explored the mountains, valleys, plateaus, dunes, glaciers, and more. Our trip from Alaska to Washington on the ferry made me fall in love with you all over again.

You do your job for our country, but your real passion is being a witness to the airmen around you. You reach people when they are at the darkest points in their lives. You have such an intuitive spirit that knows how to witness without being overbearing. You meet those airmen exactly where they are. You may be an engine mechanic by trade, but God has a higher calling for your life and you are listening to Him.

You are the best father to our children and I pray that they will grow up leading by your example. Thank you for encouraging me to stay at home with them. You want what is best for them, and I thank you for sacrificing big toys, fancy cars, and exotic vacations so we can make that possible.

I love you,

My Military Spouse "Funniest or Most Embarrassing Military Wife Moment"

2010-05-05T09:50:00.001-05:00

I just saw that the topic changed, but I will post this anyway.

My most embarrassing moment as a military wife would be at our first base, shortly after we got married. I was going to college, working a part-time job, and also selling Avon on the side. I stopped in at our Commander's house one Saturday to deliver an order to his wife. We were friends through the spouse's group, so I didn't feel uncomfortable dropping by. I knocked on the door and their child answered. I asked the child if his parents were home. The boy replied that his dad told him to open the door. So, I stepped in and peeked my head into their living room. From that point on, everything got fuzzy, voices were muted, and my life was turned down to slow motion. On the couch was the Commander, sprawled out in nothing but his briefs. I dropped the Avon, blurted out something, and left. I later found out that he was expecting his wife home from grocery shopping, so he told his son to open the door for his mom! Oops.

My Military Spouse "10 Tough Things"

2010-05-04T14:12:00.004-05:00

In no particular order, here are my "10 Tough Things"...

Knowing that he could leave at anytime, to an undesirable location, where he could be injured or lose his life.

Discussing his pay with people (civilians) who have no business knowing how much he makes. So many people think that the military is paid ridiculous amounts of money.

Trying to explain to people that we do not get housing and health care for free. Wages are lower to make up for housing allowances and our health care benefits.

Wives who wear their husband's rank.

Living away from family, losing friends to PCSing.

When my husband gets called in and has to report (in his Blues) to work because someone has gotten a DUI/DWI.

Sleeping alone at night.

Enlisted/Officer...there are so many great friends we could have made at all of our bases.

Not knowing what the future holds for us.

Putting my career and education on hold so many times because of all the moves we've made. Before online classes, I lost so many credits, had to withdraw mid-semester, transferred, etc.

Okay, this was a negative post. On to happier things!

My Military Spouse "Top 10"

2010-05-03T13:27:00.052-05:00

What's great about being a military wife?
I couldn't put them in any certain order, so here are my Top 10!

Benefits (BX, Commissary, military discount, youth center, ITT, Outdoor Rec, Retirement)

Living on base (Gated community)

Living around diversity

Sisterhood of spouses

My husband's 30 vacation days/year

Healthcare

PWOC

Guaranteed paycheck

Making wonderful friends that are stationed all over the world.

Being able to stay at home with our children to provide a sense of normalcy in the crazy life of a military family.

Seeing my man in uniform everyday.

Spring Cleaning

2010-05-03T11:36:00.000-05:00

This is the BEST e-book ever.

My Military Spouse "Scripture Verse"

2010-05-02T13:27:00.031-05:00

I am planner and an analyzer. I need to know the "whys" and the "whens." I struggle with giving everything to God. This is a huge struggle for military wives. We are not in control of our future. Plans can change on a moment's notice, our husband's could be injured or killed, we could get orders to a location that isn't on our dream sheet, etc. Isn't it wonderful knowing that God has His plan for our lives? Isn't it comforting knowing that He is the planner and we don't need to be? He will take care of us and carry us through no matter what situation we are faced with as military wives.

Jeremiah 29:10-11

"I'll show up and take care of you as I promised and bring you back home. I know what I'm doing. I have it all planned out—plans to take care of you, not abandon you, plans to give you the future you hope for."
~The Message

John 15:13
Greater love has no one than this, that one lay down his life for his friends.
~NAS

My Military Spouse "Story"

2010-05-01T13:26:00.047-05:00

My Military Spouse Story

Like many military wives, I met my husband before he enlisted. I met him long before that even. We were playmates, then first loves in a little elementary school, nestled in the woods in northern Minnesota. Fast forward 6 years...he asked me to a movie when I was 15 and not officially allowed to date. I, of course, accepted and we were inseparable (with a few hiccups along the way) until he enlisted at the age of 21 and was sent to TX.

After living apart for a year, we both decided that I should move down to TX and go to school. We eventually got married and after another year and a half, we got orders to Utah and welcomed our first little surprise blessing into our family. Since then, he has done a remote to Korea, we've lived in Alaska, Idaho, and are moving to Nebraska this year. It is amazing to see God's provision in our lives from when we first got married and ate spaghetti and Sam's Club samples and furnished our homes with Salvation Army finds, to now, 12 years later.

I always told myself I would never marry a man in uniform. God obviously had other plans and I couldn't be happier.

Happy Easter!

2010-04-04T22:23:00.004-05:00

Wordless Wednesday

2010-03-31T12:10:00.002-05:00

Around the House

2010-03-29T10:04:00.000-05:00

I got this idea from Melissa @ Breath of Life.

Reading: A Million Miles in a Thousand Years

Enjoying: Caribou K-Cups

Learning: I am learning that I need to just sit and listen for God like Samuel did. We are working through "He Speaks to Me" in PWOC. Oh, it is GOOD!

Watching: The Today Show. We were supposed to cut the cable after the Olympics were done, but the TV isn't an addiction like it was in the past, so we may keep it on for the time being.

Anticipating: Spring break this week, EASTER, my parents flying in sometime this month, and women's retreat!

Realizing: It is spring break, and I have done very little in the spring cleaning department!

Pondering: How much could I get done if I woke up an hour earlier each morning?

Studying: We got orders! So, I am studying up on the area and everything it has to offer.

Wondering: Why do we have so many toys? The kids rarely play with them. The other day, they were rappelling down the stairway with a rope and a pair of protective ear muffs. Today, they are dressed in black, pretending to be secret agents. Last week, I donated 3 garbage bags to the thrift store. They didn't even notice!

Remembering: My grandma. I missed her last night and had a lot of wonderful memories that flowed through my mind while falling asleep.

Praying: I am praying for patience and for the future.

January Goals

2010-01-07T09:40:00.002-06:00

During the month of January, I have two goals for myself.

Goal #1: Be in bed by 10:30pm.

Goal #2: Cut down on electronic "multi-tasking." If I am online, why does the TV need to be on?

2009 Reflection

2009-12-31T13:01:00.001-06:00

I've been a reader of Simple Mom for almost two years now. She is guest-blogging at

(In)Courage today and is challenging us to reflect back on 2009, so we can be better in 2010. This is nothing about resolutions that will be broken, but it is more of a reflection. Leave me a comment if you plan on working on this reflection yourself. I'd love to read your list.

Happy 2010!

Reflection Questions for 2009
1. What was the single best thing that happened this past year?

My husband and I charged through our final classes to finish both of our degrees mid-December.

2. What was the single most challenging thing that happened?

H1N1 x 5 stole the fall season from us. It was by far the scariest and sickest experience we have faced. We are still dealing with the after-effects of it with strep throats, ear infections, fevers, nasty coughs, etc. I don't recommend it to anyone.
3. What was an unexpected joy this past year?

It wasn't totally unexpected, but my brother and his new wife are expecting a baby in March. They are giving us the titles of aunt and uncle for the first time!

4. What was an unexpected obstacle?

We got orders to a perfect location, close to home. We were supposed to leave this fall, but our orders got delayed until this coming summer. After a lot of prayer and deliberation, we decided to cancel our orders all together. It was an extremely difficult decision, but we know we made the right one for our family.
5. Pick three words to describe 2009.

Challenge, Success, Exploration

6. Pick three words your spouse would use to describe your 2009 (don’t ask them; guess based on how you think your spouse sees you).

Accomplishment, Flexibility, Strength
7. Pick three words your spouse would use to describe their 2009 (again, without asking).

Adventure, Responsibility, Success

8. What were the best books you read this year?

This question makes me sad! I didn't finish one book for fun this year. I only read school books that included topics on Ethics, Public Speaking, Religion, Philosophy, and Medicine. I started a lot of books in 2009, and plan to finish all of them in 2010.
9. With whom were your most valuable relationships?

Family and close friends. As we age, it has become easier to embrace close friendships, rather than give pieces of us to acquaintences.

10. What was your biggest personal change from January to December of this past year?

James 1:19, patience, learning to say "no."

11. In what way(s) did you grow emotionally?

This year, I have really learned how, as a parent, we need to hide some of our emotions from our children, especially in stressful situations.

12. In what way(s) did you grow spiritually?

This year has been a Jeremiah 29:11 year for me. I especially like "The Message" version, "I'll show up and take care of you as I promised and bring you back home. I know what I'm doing. I have it all planned out—plans to take care of you, not abandon you, plans to give you the future you hope for."
13. In what way(s) did you grow physically?

My body was definitely last on my list of priorities this year. I let myself go. In 2010, I plan to get my body back, and take care of my skin better. With that said, I've got some major waxing to do tonight!

14. In what way(s) did you grow in your relationships with others?

I have tried to be an encourager and a positive force with the relationships I have nurtured this year.

15. What was the most enjoyable area of managing your home?

Purging our things, consigning, donating, and decorating.

16. What was your most challenging area of home management?

I have definitely slacked with the laundry and meal planning this year. It has been a year of "wash what you need" and run to the commissary an hour before dinner and quickly throw something together.
17. What was your single biggest time waster in your life this past year?

Facebook. I took 6 online classes this year. All of the classes had discussion boards that required posting in response to classmates. While I was waiting for replies, I would waste time on Facebook. In 2010, I plan on limiting myself to 1-2 visits/week.

18. What was the best way you used your time this past year?

Reading to the kids. Our family loves books. The kids grab a basket and fill it up with books in the morning. We work our way through them throughout the day. When my daughter is home from school, we take turns reading to the youngest two.

19. What was the biggest thing you learned this past year?

I learned that "my plans" are not mine. They are His. He knows what is best, and if I give it all to Him (everything, not just bits and pieces), He will bless my life.
20. Create a phrase or statement that describes 2009 for you.

Rollercoaster!

Merry Christmas!

2009-12-23T16:13:00.001-06:00

Wordless Wednesday

2009-11-18T10:07:00.002-06:00

H1N1

2009-10-21T12:32:00.002-05:00

Sorry I haven't posted, or responded to your emails. Thank you for wondering where I've been! Our family has been hit hard by H1N1 and could really use your prayers. My husband and son have fevers this morning and are starting to get more symptoms. Please pray that my fever will break so I can function enough to take care of them and our girls. Thank you all. I appreciate you.

20 Minutes

2009-10-08T11:27:00.002-05:00

Bagel with peanut butter

Sliced apples

Hot chocolate in thermos, set in freezer to cool off

One load of laundry

Snuggle time

Prayer

Happy 2nd grader

Happy Mom

All of this, if I get up 20 minutes earlier.

Learning to Serve: Part Deux

2009-10-02T10:35:00.002-05:00

And, the winner is...

2009-10-01T10:01:00.003-05:00

# 18: Katie from The Baby Factory!

She wrote, "Okay, so......Fall. I love football season & apple cider. OH and hooded sweatshirts :)"

Congrats, Katie! Please send me your address and I will get your goodies mailed to you. Thank you to all who entered my first giveaway!

Flu or H1N1?

2009-09-29T13:38:00.003-05:00

Are you getting either of these vaccinations?

Why or why not?

My GIVEAWAY ends tomorrow at 11:59 PM Mountain. Please enter if you haven't already!

Picture courtesy of Google Images.

Babies.

2009-09-25T15:32:00.003-05:00

Well, the topic of having babies has once again come up in our house. After two, we were happy and done. After three, we were even more happy, and done. Our youngest will be two in December, and we are contemplating again. Is family planning really family planning? Should it be completely up to God, or should couples "intervene?" I'd love to hear your thoughts.

Also, if you haven't entered my giveaway, please do!

Fall Giveaway!

2009-09-23T19:55:00.007-05:00

If you've been a reader of mine for awhile, you know that fall is my absolute favorite time of year! So, to celebrate I am hosting a giveaway. In this giveaway, you will win a bag of Starbucks House Blend coffee, and two great books by Bill & Pam Farrel!

If you want to enter this giveaway do any, or all of the following!

1. Reply to this post and tell me your favorite thing about fall.

2. Become one of my "followers."

3. Blog about it and link back to my post.

4. Tweet about it.

The winner will be chosen by one of our three little ones on Wednesday, September 30th.

Good luck, and happy fall!

Wordless Wednesday: Swine-Free

2009-09-23T13:26:00.001-05:00

I Could've Written This One...

2009-09-22T10:28:00.003-05:00

Moms, PLEASE read this post from Steph. It's like reading a big, warm hug...

{HUG}

Happy 33rd!

2009-09-21T16:37:00.002-05:00